1.You
are walking to your girlfriend/boyfriend’s house. There are two roads to get
there. One is a straight path which takes you there quickly, but is very plain
and boring. The other is curvy and full of wonderful sights on the way, but
takes quite a while to reach your loved one’s house. Which path do you choose? Short
or long?
2.On the way, you see two rose bushes. One is
full of white roses. One is full of red roses. You decide to pick 20 roses for
your boyfriend/girlfriend. What colour combination do you choose? (any
combination including all one colour is fine.)
3.You finally get to your boyfriend/girlfriend’s
house. You ring the bell and the maid answers. You can ask the maid to please
get your loved one, or you may go get them yourself. Which action do you take? Ask
the maid or do it yourself.
4.Now, you go
up to your boyfriend/girlfriend’s room. No one is there. You can leave the roses by the window sill,
or on the bed. Where you put the roses? Bed or window?
5.Later, its
time for bed. You and your loved one go to sleep, in separate rooms. You wake
up in the morning, and go to your boyfriend/girlfriend’s room to check up on
him/her. You enter the room: is he/she awake or sleeping?
6.It’s time to
go home now, and you start to head back. You can take either road home now: The
plain, boring one that gets you home fast; or the curvy, sight-filled road that
you can just casually take your time with. Which road do you choose? Short or
long?
Analysis :
1.
Which road do you choose to take to
your love’s house?
The roads represent your attitude towards falling in love. If you
chose the short one,you fall in love quickly and easily. If you chose the long
one, you take your time and do not fall in love easily.
2.
What combination of roses do you
choose to give your love?
The number of red roses represent how much you expect to give in a
relationship. The number of white roses represent how much you expect in a
relationship. Therefore, if a person chose all red with one white, he/she gives
90% in thr relationship but expects to receive only 10% back.
3.
Do you ask the maid to get your love,
or do you do it yourself?
This question shows your attitude in handling relationship
problems. If you ask the maid to get your loved one, then you may beat around
the bush, maybe asking a third party to intervene. Avoidance of problems runs
high. If you went and got your loved one yourself, then you are pretty direct. If
there is a problem, you confront it and deal with it. You want to work it out
right away.
4.
Where do you put the roses? On the
window sill or on the bed?
The placement of the roses indicates how often you’d like to see
your boyfriend/girlfriend. Placing the
roses on the beds means you need lots of reassurance in the relationship, and
you’d want to see your loved one every day, if possible. Placing the roses by
the window show that you don’t expect or need to see your loved one too often.
5.
Do you find your loved asleep or
awake?
Finding your boyfriend/girlfriend asleep : you accept your loved
one the way there are. Finding them awake : you expect him/her to change for
you.
6.
Which road do you choose to go home?
The
short and long roads now represent how long you stay in love. If you chose the
short one, you fall out of love easily. If you chose the long one, you tend to
stay in love for a long time.
kata-kata hari ini :
its not mine..!!hoho
mata berpinar-pinar dan kepala pusing.
tangan mula kelenguhan.
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